Is Remy Ma Refusing to Let Papoose Go? Inside the Divorce Drama, Alimony Battle, and Clarissa Shields’ Frustration

The saga of Remy Ma and Papoose’s marriage has taken a dramatic and unexpected turn, and fans are here for all the chaos.

Once celebrated as hip-hop’s golden couple, their love story is unraveling in public—and it’s messier than anyone could’ve imagined.

With boxer Clarissa Shields now caught in the middle, divorce papers collecting dust, and rumors of alimony playing puppet master behind the scenes, the situation is spiraling fast.

So what’s really going on? Let’s unpack the timeline, the tea, and the tangled web of love, betrayal, and legal delays.

The Love That Held On—But For How Long?

Let’s start with what we know: Papoose stood by Remy Ma through thick and thin—especially during her six-year prison sentence starting in 2008.

The two even got married over the phone while she was behind bars, a gesture that fans dubbed the ultimate ride-or-die move.

And when she came home in 2014, Pap didn’t miss a beat. He was there, ready to continue the love story he had kept alive for years.

They had a beautiful televised wedding in 2015, welcomed daughter Reminisce Mackenzie in 2018, and rode the wave of reality TV fame through Love & Hip Hop New York, collecting fans, applause, and checks along the way. But in 2023, after nearly two decades of partnership, it all started falling apart.

Enter Clarissa Shields

While Pap was quietly trying to move on, Clarissa Shields entered the picture—and she didn’t tiptoe in.

The two went Instagram-official with adorable posts and joint vacation pics, including a sun-drenched Valentine’s Day trip to Hawaii.

Clarissa gushed about Pap online, calling him her “King” and praising his love, his laugh, and his hands—literally and metaphorically. They looked like a couple ready to build something real.

The only problem? Pap was still legally married to Remy Ma.

Remy Refusing to Sign?

According to multiple sources and social media chatter, Papoose has been asking for a divorce—begging, even—but Remy allegedly won’t sign the papers.

And it’s not because she’s clinging to love.

Word on the street is, Remy’s hesitation might have more to do with her bank account than her heart. Insiders claim she’s worried that if she signs the divorce papers, she’ll be forced to cough up alimony—because let’s be real, Papoose held her down financially for years.

Now that she’s built a net worth estimated around $4 million—through music, fashion, and reality TV—Pap reportedly wants what he’s owed.

And under New York divorce laws, especially after 11 years of marriage, he just might get it.

A History of Holding Her Down

Before Remy’s comeback, Pap was the one promoting her mixtapes, defending her image, and showing up in every way possible.

He even took care of her son Jason while she was incarcerated—stepping up as a father figure during the most vulnerable time of their lives.

That kind of support? You can’t put a price tag on it. But if you did, the courts might call it alimony.

So it’s no wonder Papoose is allegedly looking for that spousal support check now that the tables have turned.

And sources close to the situation say Clarissa Shields is beyond frustrated that her man can’t officially move on because Remy is playing “keep away” with the divorce papers.

The Love Triangle Turns Public

If the rumors weren’t messy enough, Remy fueled the fire by releasing alleged text messages between Pap and Clarissa.

One in particular showed Clarissa expressing concern that Papoose hadn’t let her know he got home safely.

“You are the one who is married,” she said in frustration, “but if you can’t even sleep on the phone with me or check in, why are we even doing this?”

Remy then took it up another notch—accusing Pap of threatening her, even suggesting she had audio recordings of him cheating.

Pap denied the accusations, calling them a distraction and insisting Remy’s just bitter that he moved on.

And to make matters worse, the same Remy who won’t sign divorce papers was recently seen getting cozy with battle rapper Eazy the Block Captain—a relationship she practically confirmed during one of his battles with the line: “Ayo Remy, don’t you love me?” Yes.

So how can Remy be in love with a new man while still refusing to free her old one?

Clarissa Shields: Ready to Swing

Clarissa Shields isn’t one to back down—especially not in love or in the ring. The champion boxer has made it clear she’s serious about Pap. She sings to him on the beach, supports his businesses, and even brought him to her fights as her emotional and public rock. When Pap rapped her entrance music as she walked into the ring, it was clear: he was showing up for her the same way he once showed up for Remy.

And that’s reportedly what’s got Remy shook. Watching Pap pour his love into someone else is a hard pill to swallow—especially when the new woman is younger, accomplished, and madly in love.

The Alimony Angle

Let’s talk dollars. Pap may have the emotional receipts, but legally, he might have the financial ones too. Courts often consider the length of marriage, financial disparity, and the non-monetary contributions each partner made.

Remy’s estimated net worth is significantly higher than Pap’s, and his role during her prison sentence—raising her child, managing her brand, and maintaining her public image—could absolutely count in court.

Which is why many believe Remy is stalling the divorce to avoid paying spousal support.

But how long can she keep delaying before Clarissa walks away? How long is Pap supposed to wait?

The Bigger Picture

Remy and Pap’s love story was once one of the most admired in hip-hop. It stood as proof that loyalty, patience, and real partnership could still exist in an industry full of breakups and betrayal. But now? It’s unraveling fast.

Papoose wants closure. Clarissa wants commitment. And Remy—whether motivated by love, ego, or finances—is standing in the way of both.

The real question is: What does Remy Ma really want?

Does she want Pap back? Or does she just not want to pay him?

Either way, she’s blocking not just Pap’s future—but her own.

Final Thoughts

No one wins in a war of hearts and wallets. Clarissa Shields is tired of waiting. Papoose is tired of begging. And Remy? She might just be playing a dangerous game she can’t win.

So what do you think?

Is Remy Ma holding on for love—or for money?

Will Clarissa stick around, or will the drama drive her away?

And should Pap get alimony for all those years he held it down?

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